Isn’t that what it’s all about? Self-love is all about accepting who you are. Accepting your flaws and accepting your good. Being happy in your own skin. Loving who you are. My dad loves to say look in the mirror, because that self-love. That person looking back at you for all the good and bad is you. No one else should ever dictate how you feel. Only you have that right. Every day is a choice that you make about how you feel about yourself. You make the decision to be upset with yourself for not fitting in a pair of jeans or to be really happy because you look great in the new lipstick you bought. You are the only one that can control your mood and your own acceptance of yourself. It is only you who can look in that mirror and smile back.